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Monday, September 24, 2012

Dauin? Don't Mind If I Do!

Bye Bye Subic Bay
Oh my goodness, where do I begin? I am sitting in the comfort of a mosquito net in a nipa hut all of my own in Dauin, Negros Oriental, Visayas at this very moment. A nipa hut is a little traditional Filipino house made completely of bamboo. It looks so nifty minus the multitude of insects and even a few fuzzy rodents… it is open at the top before the roof and also a bit on the sides, so I share my new home with many more of God’s wonderful creatures…but I have Wi-Fi thanks to the house next door! It really is amazing how much easier this experience is having Internet at home, not to mention the gorgeous beach and coral reef a 5-minute walk from my hut. Dauin is quite a magical place, if you Google it, you will see that it is “home of the gentle people.” It is a tiny rural village, however it has amazing dive spots that few tourists have discovered. Basically, I can grab my snorkel, walk out to the marine sanctuary, and swim around wherever I want to for free and see tons of colorful sea beasts and exotic fish, even my favorite, the wonderous seahorse. IT IS SO COOL! Seriously, I will probably do this every day. I will no doubt get scuba certified here, because it is so cheap and people get trained in this same spot right near me, supposedly there is a famous guy named Harold who gives huge discounts to PC volunteers. I am getting all sorts of juicy tips and chika chika from the volunteers who are scattered around Negros and have been here for a while. The most well-known and superb scuba spot is off Apo Island, which is a 30-minute boat ride from me. I am told that it is guaranteed to sea giant sea turtles feeding near the shore every early morning. All in all, this place has got it going on! I love that it is such a small village and I will get to know every single person here very well (almost everyone is part of the same giant family as my hosts…host mom has 11 siblings), but also the bigger city of Dumaguete is only 30-minutes away with many fun things to do and the airport when I want to escape being a fish in a fishbowl for a bit.

My Lovely Nipa Hut Home
My Personal Potty Room... Tabo Expert Now...
Cooking Area
I had my first couple of days at school already. Dauin National High School has a little over 1000 students and seems to have a great atmosphere. It is proud of being an “environmentally friendly” campus, with no trash receptacles because they have a Cebuano slogan that basically translates to “your trash your problem.” I found this awesome and hilarious. Shockingly, it works and kids take home their trash, it is really clean all around besides some of the ceilings are falling through and the desks are a broken clusterfuck…but that’s what I am here for! They are very proud of their male volleyball team who wins every tournament. They also want me to coach the boys’ basketball team! I am actually really looking forward to that since a few of them were already impressed by my celeb appearance when they were shooting around once. I am still figuring out my teaching schedule, but I will have two 7th grade classes and three 12th grade classes. There are a few students in my 12th grade class who are older than me…a little awkward. There is also a 28 year old in my 7th grade class; things work a little differently here if you haven’t figured that out yet...which is likely because I don’t think I quite have yet! The school had a big presentation and event for me on my first day, there was a big banner welcoming me. I was told I had to make a speech to the whole school, parents, and representatives from Dep Ed or Department of Education, aka the big wigs in an hour. Blah. Peace Corps has definitely made me get used to being put on the spot, so surprisingly, I did not struggle to much with this…because I spoke in English, haha. The funniest part was how I was introduced by one of the teachers, she was holding my resume in her hands from who knows where, and she listed off my so called skills and added my hobbies and all of the countries I have travelled to. It sounded a little like a dating advertisement and I chuckled. It was overwhelming meeting so many people with complicated names, every single person commenting on my looks, and being started at all alone by so many people all day, but that is something we have all gotten used to since arriving here from another planet. I really did think I would blend in? but it is my honker of a nose that they like so much because Filipinos have very flat noses. Chloe never let me forget that, oh how I miss my little shadow!

I am slowly but surely picking up Visayan/Cebuano, but it will definitely take time. I eat all my meals and hang out a lot at the main house across from my hut. There is my host mom(Joy) and dad(Allan), two host sisters ages 5(Mariz) and 7(Nicole), 23 year old brother(Adonis), grandmother(Lola), 1 dog, and 3 cats, no one speaks a lick of English except for Joy the science teacher, so that is great for my language immersion. I have had the best mangos of my life here, from the tree growing right outside my door. There are also tons of palm trees with coconuts and kalamungay, or Visayan horseradish trees, which everyone is so proud of here. Another thing about the Visayas that I was looking forward to is all of the spectacular seafood. For my first dinner I had some giant delish pink fish, and my sisters were fighting over who got to eat the eyes…Another random funny fact, I guess my Subic host mom found my Dauin host mom on Facebook and talked with her over chat for an hour about my favorite foods and what I am like. So cute.  If you haven’t seen, that whole Subic family has been blowing up my Facebook, I miss them so much already! Daniel, Hillary, and I promised that we would be back for Fiesta in January, so we need to start planning that excursion! Also, my school’s principal took me up to the beautiful mountain province of Valencia yesterday to see the Girls Scouts camp. Over 3500 girl scouts had been camping out there for the past 3 days and they had thousands of tents set up. Slightly smelly but so cool to look out at! There will be so much more to come on my adventures in Dauin, since I will be here for the next two years, so let me wrap up Subic and our Swearing-In Ceremony in Manila next.
My Bamboo Roof from Inside
My Backyard with Apo Island

Wow was it sad on my last day in Subic. Started off with a palenke trip with Daniel, we were walking through the market and he sees roaches crawl right over my feet and I did not even notice a thing…nothing unusual at this point. Ha, and it went downhill from there. I had gotten so close with my host family, we all used the same soap for goodness sake! So, my last blog told all about my amazing surprise party that my host family threw with the giant tarp of my face, by the way, other volunteers were so amazed by this and I seem to be the only person out of all 66 of us who got anything like this! Proves another reason why my family is the best. Filipinos are very sentimental and emotional people, I can say that because every single one I have met thus far has been so. The saddest thing is, these people are not used to having new friends leave them. In the states, we are all accustomed to moving around and getting to know new places/people, however, here, families stay in the same houses where they are born their whole lives, then their children stay and so on and so on. So, they hardly ever get close with new people who leave…made it all very very sad and hard. Goodbyes are no fun at all. As I packed away my life once again, while “white trash party” by Eminem played on repeat outside my window 17 times, I thought more about what was ahead of me. I had gotten so much into the Peace Corps training Subic routine, I had my best friend, boyfriend, loving spectacular Filipino family, and now it was all going to be taken away! I was solemn for a brief moment, but then I remembered how I knew exactly what I was getting into when I signed up for this. I just had no idea I would meet the most amazing people I have ever known. Hillary and I gave our tear jerking speech at the end of the family farewell party, many a tears were shed and smooshy hugs a had. Daniel’s goof of a host father told everyone that our wedding is being planned for January Fiesta so to come back for it. My mother did little to discourage this, more like cackling laughter of encouragement. I am quite used to awkward moments like this since being in the Philippines, and we are always able to “joke-lang” and laugh it off. We also completed our 2-hour Subic teacher training, we ended up compiling 20 binders of "Innovative Teaching Methodologies" concerning Multiple Intelligences, Internet Resources, Phonology, and Learning Styles. Daniel made an awesome video explaining it all that we put on 10 flash drives to give to our partner teachers. I also pulled through getting the 14 giant Tarps made, doubles of 7 designs with grammar rules. The teachers were so appreciative and impressed. Oh, and also after the farewell party, besides the point, a giant bouquet of yellow flowers and sparkly things were waiting in my room for me, because my family knows my favorite color at the moment is yellow. Like I haven’t been showered with enough gifts and love already!
TARPS, wish I got a photo of all 7! 
Daniel Presenting our Community Project for the teachers of Subic High
Now on to Manila. Manila. Manila is definitely in a league of its own. It is unbelievably crowded mixed with ritzy glam, clubs, and hotels, right alongside extreme poverty. Everywhere you walk you see babies and mothers sleeping in filthy rags on cardboard, crumpled bodies of people curled up against one another for comfort, and the most street children anywhere in the world dodging between traffic while begging for money. I don’t think you ever get used to seeing all of this, but it is terrifying how easily it is to ignore them, myself included. As I talked about briefly before though, it is just feeding the cycle as well as putting yourself in danger if you try to do anything else. We stayed in a place right across from the U.S. Embassy where Swearing-In was taking place. It was such a treat to have a shower and AC for a few days, also always fun when we all get together, hence Hobbit Hole adventure. We had read about this place that had been established by a former Peace Corps volunteer and only employs people with dwarfism. We obviously got our hopes up too high because there were only a couple of midgets there, but everyone was so friendly and it was still really fun drinking “flaming frodos.” Each cluster of training sites had to prepare a short cultural presentation in advance to perform at the Embassy for Swearing-In. Our group revamped the Filipino story of the first man and woman, “Malakas at Maganda,” and added a bit of humor and PC volunteer ending with a twist. I was a lizard with a chase scene, fun stuff. Other groups sang songs and did dances, but ours was all in Tagalog and the best of course. For the big event, a huge portion of the fellas bought “Barongs” to wear, the traditional male formal wear in the Philippines that buttons all the way to the top. Daniel looked pretty snappy. After all of the festivities, it was time to say goodbyes again as we all departed for our permanent sites the next morning. No surprise, we are planning reunions already. One of the biggest festivals in the Philippines actually takes place on my island of Negros in October and is supposedly a giant Mardi Gras, which a big group of us are hoping to crash.
The Feared Foursome
Official PCVs at last
Well I suppose that is it for now! I can’t reiterate how much I love my site and that I can get everywhere important (school, beach, market, home, bus) within an 8-minute walk! Perfect small size, stunning mountains, crystal clear beach with coral reef, DIFFERENT COLORED SEA HORSES. Sea horses forever. I have a wonderful host family once again, brilliant mentor teacher at the high school (Kathy), sweet students who want me to start a GLEE club, great principal (Ma’am Alcala), scrumptious fruits, my own nipa hut, and so much more. It will be difficult starting from scratch with a whole new language, but the teachers at school are overly willing to help me. I am missing Daniel and all my PC friends like crazy already (missing family back home more than imaginable at this point!), but thank heavens for cheap texting here and skype working so well. COME VISIT ME!

Monday, September 10, 2012

Almost a REAL Volunteer

So it is official, I am moving to Dauin, Oriental Negros in the Central Visayas region in one week! That likely means nothing to you, as it did to me when I first heard, but turns out that once again I got amazingly lucky. Fortunate enough to be riding solo in one of the best small town beach dive spots in the Pines, right across from Apo Island. I am also only 30 minutes from the bumping city of Dumaguete, which is full of college student/fun interactions/a mall/the airport, so best of both worlds.  AND get this, I will be only a hop away from the island of Bohol, where my obsession of the TARSIERS live! If you don’t know, the magnificent creature at the tip top of this blog is a tarsier and they are only found on this one tiny island in the Philippines. Peace Corps made it pretty fun/mentally painful the way we found out our sites. The suspense was insane as all 66 of us (numbers still dwindling down) awaited hearing our name and to place our picture up on the map on our new location. Mostly big smiles, but sadly a few tears were shed as well. There are many volunteers who are clustered pretty close together, but on my island, we are all really spread out. Luckily again though, one of my best friends, Chris, is the only one close to me (2 hours away). Hillary is a 6-hour bus ride on my same island around the mountains (she has many PCVs in her same city), and Daniel is a couple hour flight since he is up north in Libmanan, Bicol, Luzon region (we will be speaking different languages which is kinda cool.) It is going to be really different/lonely finally being the only American around! Especially since our little foursome has gotten so tight knit. There will be many visits taking place since flights are fairly cheap within the Philippines, and there are bankas, boats, and buses galore. I will now need to learn my new site’s language, Cebuano also called Visayan, after I place at a certain language ability for Tagalog. Overall, Supervisor’s Conference was amazing. It is always madness when our whole batch gets together, but oddly enough, I hung out with Chris, Hillary, and Daniel pretty much the whole time, when they are the kids I see everyday in Subic! Most everyone got to meet the principals of their new schools, mine sent another teacher in her place, but I got some info on Dauin National High School. Also, everyone got a lot of info on the new families, but they are still looking for one for me!!! That is the only thing that makes me a little nervous. The week was full of monotonous meetings, a few informative activities and lectures during the days, but dance parties and pool shenanigans at night. We all enjoyed the air con and showers for a brief three days. Now we are finishing up all of our work in Subic for our last week. Funny thing, a girl in our group got a package in Manila that was duck taped around a whole corner, and someone had written “Eaten By Rats” in sharpie. I guess they ate her gummy worms…damn leptospirosis carrying Manila rodents!
The Luzon Region Board...which I am not on...
Just Being matchy Cool at Sups Con with Hil and Dan
A few of us went into the bigger city of Olongapo last night to see the star of “Walang Hanggan” Filipino soap opera, Coco Martin, make an appearance. We waited a couple of hours in a mob of people as you could imagine it would be in Asia with anything concerning celebrities. I also ran into a couple of my students from Subic High, which was a pleasant and funny surprise. Subic National High School had their Sports Fest a few days ago. This is the event of the year for the students and the school divided into four groups to compete in all sorts of sports and activities with their “muses” as beautiful girls who lead their team. There is actually a whole beauty/popularity contest with these girls. Truthfully, it was a little disturbing seeing 14 year olds, who look 20, strutting around their stuff in tiny clothes, also being physically judged by the principals of other schools. We got to sit right on the stage, another one of the many ways we are treated like royalty around here. The coolest event by far though was the dance number. Each section performed for about 10 minutes in awesome costumes and really great choreography, one group even had a contortionist guy like from whatever American talent show those guys were on. Sorry if this blog is a little spacey…I am at that point. I am also grumpy because some bastard of a mosquito macgyvered his way into my mosquito net and has bitten me 4 times sneakily out of site. Grrrr.

I ate chicken feet today. Yucky and crunchy as expected…

The indigenous people here, the Aeta (pronounced I-ta), are fascinating, and we got to visit an Aeta village the other day. We took a jeepney deep into the woods where their special school and tribe are located. A pretty traumatic event happened though, as we were beginning to cross this giant bridge, the person in front, Nancy, disappears through the bamboo. She fell through the bridge and our leader, Sam grabs her hands as she is literally dangling over the rocky river, I was just standing there like a gumba in shock as Daniel maneuvers under the bridge to brace her from the bottom if she couldn’t hold on. She was pushed/pulled back up and was just a little shaken up with a few bumps/bruises. Thank God it was the very beginning of the bridge, so there was still an arch of land, and Sam and Daniel were fast acting. Surprisingly enough, we all agreed it was worth it to all cross the bridge one by one because we travelled so long to see the Aeta. It was worth it, and no other chaos ensued. The kids were the cutest I have ever seen, and it was a totally different atmosphere that what we have been used to teaching in. Also, it is amazing to see people still living off the land in the middle of nowhere. I realized I have not written at all about our technical leader, Kuya Sam. He is quite the character. One of the smartest people I have known, and he is also a vegan Buddhist, which is a very rare find in the Philippines. I do not even have time to write all of his hilarious and inspirational quotes and life stories, but I did want to mention how lucky our group is to have him. He has taught us so much about Filipino culture and life in general. Wise wise Kuya Sam. Also, I apologize that this blog is not clever and entertaining…I am feeling lazy and unity.
Silly Old Me with the Aeta kiddos


So, nicest part of this story, my amazing, super, caring, beautiful, and overly generous family here in Subic threw me a surprise going away party last night. I cannot describe how much I felt like a celebrity superstar and so blessed. I get home from an exhausting youth camp in another barangay, and I see a giant fabric poster tarp with my face on it saying “Allie Nunes in Subic, Zambales” with the dates. There were balloons all around it and even a cake saying goodbye we will miss you. I was very close to crying, but I held it together for now. My family here prepared all of my favorite foods and invited Daniel, Hillary, and Chris, along with our language instructors. I felt so special and it blows my mind how I got the best family possible, and I get to stay in touch with them forever thanks to facebook! They gave me all sorts of trinkets and gifts and told me they loved me so much. My even more wonderful blood family in Texas sent me a care package with perfect gifts that I requested to give the fam here in return. Little Chloe asks me every day not to leave and tells me that I am her best friend. It really does break my heart a little bit, but I gotta head out to my permanent site and too soon…no choice in the matter. However, a few of us are planning to be back in Subic for the fiesta in January, so I hope that all works out to see the fams again. So, now it’s just tying things up here, preparing for Tagalog interview/test, and practicing our goofy skit for swearing in (hint: I am a lizard). We bus it for the big ceremony in 7 days. So close to becoming PC Volunteers and leaving our Trainee titles in the Subic dust!
My Peeps at My Party
The Whole Gang
A Little Eery...with Nanay Momma Alma